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If you never meet the person you love,will you marry?

If you never meet the person you love,will you marry?

For example,now you are 30years old,but you are still single,however,there are some person you know from blind date,but you don't have any feel to them ,will you try to love and marry?

Jan 22, 2016 10:19 AM
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I did this and it was a disaster. I was 25 and wanted very much to be married. It ended in divorce. I tried a second time when I was 35. That marriage also ended. When I married the third time it was to someone I was sure I loved and was compatible with. We have now been married 18 years.

January 22, 2016

learing language is funnier

January 22, 2016

No. I am sure of that.

January 22, 2016

Nope.

 

Gave it a go at 27, we did not have any support and encouragment and it failed a year later, so it ended in divorce at 28.

 

Tried again at 46, moved to England, lived there a year, getting the house all set up, the fiance visa sorted, everything all systems go and 6 weeks before the wedding, he changed his mind and back to Brooklyn I was forced to return to.

 

So for me - never ever ever ever again.   I lost everything on earth due to that decision, my secure gov't job, my health insurance, leaving my elderly father behind alone ( and the guilt ), my entire bank account, all for nothing.

January 22, 2016

For me, it is better to marry the person that I am compatible with. I tend to mentality assessment rather than my feelings. I think this perspective is more practical to support our live in difficult conditions. Considering love is important but what if I don't meet the woman that I love, I will be single for a long time.  

 

January 22, 2016
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