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Age is a very personal secret and privacy. Isn't it?

Why did many Americans ask me "how old are you"? Especially males


Sep 10, 2016 3:09 AM
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It's sometimes okay to ask people their age. If someone is young, like less than thirty, it's usually fine. Or if you know them. I don't usually ask 30+ year olds unless I know them, because some of them are sensitive about their age, but I wouldn't say it's very personal or a secret. I am willing to tell anyone who asks. 

That said, it's a little weird to ask a stranger. And it's true that sometimes when a man asks a young woman her age, it's because he wants to know if it's legal for him to have sex with her. But other times the person asking is just curious or trying to make small talk. If it makes you uncomfortable, you can say so. Most people will respect your boundaries, and you dont need to talk to the people who don't. 

September 10, 2016
A person's age is interesting to me, and my own is certainly not secret in any way. I think some people hate to give out their true age because it makes them feel old or something, but I find this to be pretty silly. Americans like to make small talk, and to get to know people better, so expect to be asked this a lot. You don't have to tell them though, just say that you'd rather not tell.
September 10, 2016
I'm always interested in person's age, because i think it's a significant part of their personality. Nevertheless i almost never ask them directly, since i know that it's considered rude. But for me there is nothing wrong to tell them my age. Any way, it won't make me older only because i tell how old i am. It would have been ridiculous!
Personally i find it inconvenient to talk to somebody over the internet when they don't provide any information about themselves, including age. It can also be a sign that a person is reserved and not easy to talk to.
September 10, 2016

I don't usually care about person's age, If I just having a conversation with that person. But, often, people tell something smart or some astonishing facts about them, I just cant stand it to ask about the age. And when I find out that the person is young enough comparing to his/hers age, I feel like "wow, so young and so smart" or "damn she's only 23 and already done some many things! She has to be so purpouseful...". After all, this person becomes even more interesting to me. Anyway, I don't think that ones should be afraid to tell age, or consider that it is a rude thing to ask about it. Good people just getting better when the get older, remember that :)

September 10, 2016
If you don't want to say your age to male language exchange partner just say, " A gentlemen never asks a lady her age". It works all the time. lol!
September 10, 2016
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Emmy
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Chinese (Mandarin), Chinese (Cantonese), English
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