The problem is that everyone is concerned about helping the bullied, but they did nothing wrong they don't have a problem. People should be concerned about helping the bully. Cause, you know, i've seen a documentary about bullyng recorded in south corea, i just refuse to believe that people do this sort of thing just cause they want it, something is happening to them and is making them behave like this.
What i'm trying to say is, that when someone is menaced in school they're forced to move to another school, they're treat like if he was the problem, but as a matter of fact the bully has a problem.
We live in a world where comfort matters. No one willing to help or stand up for anyone else. Getting involved would, well, make them get involved.
Today's society has the mindset of "someone else will help them", "just ignore it" or "I am glad that isn't me". But, who is this "Someone else", if it is not you or me? How many times have you seen people standing around and watching someone get hurt without saying a word or calling for help?
Sometimes, there are dangerous situations and physically intervening is extremly hazardous, so what can you do? Your voice works. Why not yell and tell that person to stop or shout out for help?
We allow people to pick on others and laugh it off, by minimizing the situation by saying that bully was "playing", "it was joke", "they don't mean anything by it," or "just lighten up and learn to take a joke". Doing those things lets the bully know that their actions are ok and unfortunately in the same step, it is telling the victim that they do not matter. This is why bullying will not end.
"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing" - Edmund Burke
because society becomes unfair with every passing day. rich and authorized one always bully poor weak one. so who have much money, they have everything and the contrary. so weak people always dissatisfied with their life and society. lead them to suicide.
A lot of time there is problem in the bully's life that created them into the torment that they have become. People with little power will exert it anywhere they can. And the problem might not be that their family is disfunctional, but they were bullied and so now they do the same thing and the cycle continues, but that is no excuse to not help some who cannot help themselves.
If someone helped the bully when they were the victim, then they wouldn't have become one. The cycle contiues.
And sometimes, the bully just wants to be a bully.
