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Why men and women are scared about having a formal relationship?

Formal with respect, true love, fun... a long relationship. Where you and your girl/boy are disposed to struggle for their love, a long relationship. Currently, it's very common to see relationships that have a duration of one week or month so, what is happening? Don't we are enough patient? it looks like if people currently are not able to create or feel true love.

Sep 20, 2016 4:13 AM
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I am happily married after 30 years, and I will share some tips.

First: the word is RESPECT. In Spanish we said "La confianza da asco" (confidence sucks). It's very difficult mix both concepts, confidende and respect. But for me, it´s essential.

Second: EMPATHY. When you think the other person is at least as important as you, it's easy understand his/her needings and supply it.

Third: RESILIENCE. Not every day is a good day, for you and for your loved person. You must accept and deal with it.

Fourth: WORK. Try to be lovely for your loved one. Compliments, kisses, little touches, hugs... Be more sensual than sexual. We said: "El roce hace el cariño" (touch makes affection).

September 22, 2016
Nowadays, people escape from their responsibilities, and the duties. They want to have fun in the short term, but the formal relationship needs everyone to be responsible for certain duties in life, especially, after having a baby.
September 21, 2016
what was your longest time in a relationship_?
September 20, 2016
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