I meant older family members, teachers, workmates, bosses etc. here.
I pointed out the wrongs sometimes but usually the results were terrible!
I reflected sometimes that maybe if I used a milder way to persuade them, it would work better. But, I tried, and things went on as what it used to be...
Should one just behave himself well, or pick out the wrongs?
(As for friends, I tend to try to lay my finger on their faults face to face. )
I think you must leave that man, and that place until it is not so late.