It makes me question why people complian a lot about life, it seems like that they are the only one with some problems.
So here's my little help based on your phrases:
"my complaints will not change anything"...
I agree with you, so what about your ACTIONS?
Have you ever heard about this quote? "be the change you want to see in the world"
"Now life is very bad...life is so hard"...
Look at all those people that are going through stuff harder than you (a kid who fights to stay alive, a kid with no food for almost 2 days, at least you have a device and internet to talk about your pity soul...), and be grateful for what you have today, you just need to switch the negative habit to the good one.
"I hate this city, it is full of deceit and hypocrisy." Don't forget that a place is made of people, in other words, you are part of the city, too and let me know if you never had a hypocrisy moment in your life.
When you are in a situation, you have 3 choices:
1- Change the situation
2 - Get out of the situation (in case you can't change it)
3 - Accept it as it is (in case the first two failed). But remember: from the moment you make the third choice you have no right to say you have no way out and no more bla bla bla.
Now, STOP THE VICTIM GAME and start to change. When you change, things (at least for you) will be changing. too.
Your problems are important because they are happening to you. Although I generally agree that people have it worse then we do, but we still have problems that hurt.
If you don't like your city move. You can surpass your fear of leaving and being alone. I feel this is what has truly tied you to the city you hate. It is very scary to be alone, but you can make friends. Even the most introverted person, can make a friend, they just reject the hand that is stretched to them, because they want a better one.
If you say you can't leave because of money, then get a job and set a goal of working as much as you can to make enough to leave.
Remember, there are very few situations in this world that we cannot change through our actions. Make a plan and find a way. :)
There are many nice and inspiring comments above me so I don't think I should write anything more:)
I [email protected] for stepwise explaining the matter so nicely and Thanks @Aegis for a nice quote and a movie,maybe I should watch it:)
Lastly,ending with some facts about life:)
Life is a Song---Sing it
Life is a Game---Play it
Life is a Challenge---Meet it
Life is a Dream---Realise it
Life is a Sacrifice---Offer it
Life is a Love---Enjoy it:)