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Shall I care about somebody who does not care about me? What do you think about it?
18 de Fev de 2018 às 08:53
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I'd like to tell something in addition. If you care about some person who is not grateful and who doesn't try to give you anything in return thus you cultivate a parasite. I guess it's as reasonable as intentionally growing worms in the gut. Sergey says "it's a good exercise ... to increase much of personality quality". For me, it sounds very unnaturally. It looks similar to persistent jumps with beating one's head against a wall from running starts for the sake of increasing the skull strength and obtaining the insensitivity to pain. On the other hand, you corrupt the soul of a man who embarked on the path of parasitism if you continue your kind care about them. Maybe it sounds a bit rude but I don't want to offend anyone.
19 de Fevereiro de 2018
Life is not as some people assume that there are a lot of people if some of them decided to go, we will find others

In friends series there was an episode when they asked rose why do you love Rachel? He answered by bringing a paper and writing down Rachel's positives and negatives, so Rachel broke up the relationship with him

and when they asked Rachel why do you love Rose? She said : There's too much history between us

it's a genuine and great statement

people are not material things that we can get rid of easily, as long as people stay with us, we are eager to make the relationships to continue even if we became incompatible together. Your friends in no time become ingredients in your character and components you can't extract from yourself, 

And when the person gets older it becomes difficult for him to replace his friends with others.

So you find some people when they l9se their friends are truly willing to commit suicide and end his life, because the departed part of him is bigger than the stayed part.

When a child loses his parents he becomes older all of a sudden because he can't compensate them with alternatives 

So I don't encourage leaving friends easily, oftentimes the emotional pain is killer and difficult to recover from
19 de Fevereiro de 2018
 NO , but it is okay if you do , it proves that you have feelings 
19 de Fevereiro de 2018
I agree with Andrey. I had a relationship once that was mutually beneficial. I felt such peace and contentment during my time. We cared about each other and I am a better man because of that. If it was not mutual then it would be a joke. I invested my heart and soul into our marriage as did she and regardless of the challenges we had each other. 
It is your choice and perhaps you feel that is him or nothing, and simply do not want to be alone. I do not presume to know.
19 de Fevereiro de 2018
man ?

18 de Fevereiro de 2018
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