You are teaching our child that an adult woman/mother should inflict pain on the people she loves the most. And that your actions in the meantime don’t matter.
Your actions show you don’t care about the collateral emotional damage that the constant drama inflicts upon our daughter as long as it causes emotional drama to me.
The only thing our daughter knows is what she learns by watching us
In your all your repeated episodes you become abusive and rarely ever apologize for that. If you do apologize it’s a very casual, just after the fact, single word. And if I try to pick up there into any relative conversation it usually ends up going straight back into the abuse.
For years you have watched me suffer at your own hands in these episodes you create.
Sometimes you tone it down, and other times you can resist it for longer amounts of time, but it seems you truly don’t understand the pain you cause others.
I used to think you will change eventually when you see what your behavior is doing. But I am coming to understand that this is a personality disorder and I am might just need to learn to how to live with this imbalance in our lives.