I have found the concept of the drama triangle very useful to study in learning how to deal with people who take the victim role. The important thing is to watch our own tendency to get drawn into the drama triangle---- people tend to get sucked into the triangle trying to be the rescuer. When you are unwilling to continue, the ¨victim¨ acts like you are now the ¨persecutor.¨
In my personal life and professional life, I work hard to stay out of these roles. The drama triangle is no fun and is awfully hard to get out of once you are drawn in.
Thanks for the tip :)
Yes. My cousin. She is not talking to me beacause I didn't make what she wanted. Sad.