You look like a person who is finding the right way in life, that is great.
Obviously, everybody has his own opinion, so it is impossible to satisfy all of them.
But we shouldn't.
I know a reliable recipe, following it you'll avoid a lot of problems.
Here it is: before to do something ask yourself, WHY DO I WANT TO DO IT?
Applicable to this topic there are might be some questions.
WHY do I want to close the door with my foot?
WHY do I want to impress anyone?
WHY do I want to know opinions of people who are absolutely not familiar with?
Using this simple method, asking "why" before doing something, you probably help yourself in future life.
Best wishes to you and your family.