Your avatar seems androgynous to me Aegis and scary. I surely wouldn’t contact you if I was looking for a language partner.
aigis so it is a girl, on your avatar?!
PS, it's ok. Eveything's ok.
I would even be fine wiht obscene avatars. But I'm more comfortable with users who pick an avatar they like, when they represent their identity somehow - rather then are tyring to manipulate soemone for some practical goal. But after all, it also represents their identity and i'm like this too....