Don't assume ... Keep it simple i think the most delaying and annoying factor in human communication is assuming that u know the message behind others talk don't make assumptions and keep it simple .... they don't have a message unless they told u they have one even if u have the most powerfull sensation system don't do assumptions if u worry about something or u think there is a hidden message in the talk; just ask .... it's that simple maybe one assumption is allowed .... whoever u r talking with doesn't have a hidden message we r delaying ourselves from getting others points by concentrating on non-essential talk what else do u think is more annoying than this one ????