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‏Nadoush
Critisizing your choise for clothes' colours

Why do some people just consider themselves an example  that we should follow?!

I have passed with a situation concerning this issue. That person is my  mate at work and I  found that person explodes with an amount of critisizm about the colours of my  clothes.

That  person said"all your clothes are dark, why do you choose dark colours?"

She critisized every piece I own. I was astonished. I defended my choises but I want to read any comment that might advise me how to deal with similar people and situation.

Apr 23, 2018 8:45 PM
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Do it like the Madagascar Penguins' movie: just smile and wave and the criticizers will disappear (ignore them. It's not worth it to waste your time caring about what they think, they aren't better than you) :D
April 23, 2018
Narcissism + Domineering Personality is a toxic combo. My best advice, let them know upfront that you're not comfortable with their negative opinions. Most of the time, they portray this behavior without putting much thought into it. As it is naturally ingrained in their brain.  
April 23, 2018
Actually I am not the kind of people who criticize the others about their personal life or about their appearance, people might be offended by your criticism and they might hate you .Even when they ask me about their appearance  ,It's uneasy for me to give them a negative comments about that,But I can give my opinion about serious matters when my opinion might affect on their choice.
April 23, 2018
‏Nadoush
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Arabic, Arabic (Gulf), Arabic (Levantine), Arabic (Modern Standard), English, Spanish
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Spanish