If you were running on the same track with others, you could be a winner or a loser. What track do you want to run? Money track? Popouralty track? There are many tracks anywhere all over the world. If you beated someone once, you could not stop your desire fame. The fightings never end. It's the Winner and Loser Cult.
You only have to run on your own road alone. The opponent on the road is yourself.
When you are tired, come back to your family love track. Nobody beats you there.
@Vera. Good point. Where are the rules?
@Oleg. I agree. Competion is good, but that does not mean, always, a competition for money. We should compete in whatever it is we love. I like the Diogenes persoective, thanks.
@Hanji. Yes, it is great to come back to the family track where we are loved. And take a (cigarette?) break from all that running around.