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Sheryl
Hey! I have something to ask you. Will you be indifferent to girls who like you?
May 5, 2019 12:42 PM
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Do you say "yes" to all guys who ask you out on dates?  There is your answer
May 5, 2019
It´s a situation that can be very uncomfortable sometimes, especially for the girl.
I will speak in general.
Isn´t because you don´t like someone who likes you, to try to avoid this person.
People don´t choose to fall in love.
They choose the one to fall in love too.
Love comes without invitation, with no reason, it has nothing to do with logic.

So there is no reason to avoid this person.

However, we can engage in a conversation to this one to let him/her know that you are sorry because the feeling isn´t reciprocal.
That´s it´s hard for you to say that but you prefer to tell the truth instead of doing what many men would do which it takes advantage of the situation.
Then you can offer your friendship. being a friend can help you know more about this one.
maybe you will develop some feelings for what you discovered or not.


Dialogue is the best solution in this case
May 5, 2019
Actually it depends on the girl herself , if I like her then I wouldn't be indifferent to her but if I don't like her , I'll try to avoid her , same thing for men , I know it can be hard sometimes but I'm not gonna engage into a relationship with someone I don't like her
May 5, 2019
Yes, I have to admit that I had some bad experience. But it is okay. I firmly think I deserve to be happy. Thank you all. 
May 5, 2019
Sheryl, no, I won't.
I prefer people who like me to people who dislike me.

But if by "indifferent" you mean absence of mutual feeling.... 

May 5, 2019
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Sheryl
Language Skills
Chinese (Mandarin), English, Spanish
Learning Language
Spanish