I'm sorry if it seemed that I disagreed, Ashyr, I really don't.
This is not a dating site and should not be used as one. It was just the way you started with "especially, ladies" :D
It was funny, and clearly arose from you being a man rather than from it being more ok for men than women to use italki as a dating site.
I intended to poke gentle fun at it to bring to your attention to this. I hope I did not offend you, as I certainly didn't mean to.