i really wanna be a successful person

she abandoned me and now i want to let her know it was a huge mistake

and i am doing good now

 I want to lose weight ! nothing tastes as good as being fit  joking apart,
to my mind, it is wrong to talk about our goals, It does nothing to help us. Do you think I am wrong?
indeed every time I have spoken with someone about them , I couldn't achieve my goals. (in your opinion, What is wrong with me?)