You and her break up,you choose to start a new life.
If you love each other, you will choose to do so?
but you can not forget this love?
I liked the example VERY MUCH!
Life is sometimes like a bowl. If you want to offer something to someone you have to first fill your own bowl and then, you can give from what you have gotten. Take you time to work on your own goals, go your own path for a while, fill your bowl. Is the other person still around, and you both have something to offer to each other, then you can try again, hopefully you will have learnt how to fill it without any effort, you will have become a fountain.