Water tends to find its own level.  If you demand being around people who want to see you in person, other people who have the same thoughts will find you.

My friends have changed over time.  We all reflect each others' tastes, beliefs, and values.

i know it, you are right.

But my own friends became so attached to social pages that if i delete something they just wont find me anymore...

it's so vicious... Meet in person is something of the past...

sending emails is the new "little party with friends"

You're only a number until they know you.  You aren't a person until they recognize you.

Demand the world knows who you are.  Your actions, words, behavior, legacy will all define you to others.  Make them learn who you are from the strength of your example.