No body is perfect and all of us want to improve or change something about us. What is that thing about you? Why do you want to change it?
I would want to be more confident, more relaxed, less jealous and competitive.
I would like to avoid laziness and jealousness in me. I understand that I have these features and now I am working on being more hard working and happy for smb's happiness and success.
Topics like this are always offensive to me.
(A) They always fail to identify who the person is who is asking the question.
(B) The questions are always personal, by their very nature.
(C) The Person posting the Personal Questions never informs the Italki Forum
why they have this kind of personal information about Italki Members.
(D) It makes the Italki Forum look like something different than a Language Resource Website.
It makes the Italki forum looks like some kind of Therapy Center for the discussion of
very intimate and personal problems, and moreover, a kind of Therapy conducted by persons with absolutely no professional status or ability.
(E) The person posting the question always fails to answer their own question,
so that the are literally "feeding" off of the problems that other people may admit to.
They are "takers". Never "givers".
(F) I find it particularly offensive that some stranger is asking "why" I or anyone else would
want to change something. I answer to no mortal being at any time on any subject as to "why" I do anything. I may answer to a Higher Power or to Conscience as to "why" I do anything; but I surely am not responsible or obligated to any mortal being as to "why" I do anything.
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(G) Topics like this are like some kind of Cattle Call. There is an evident presumption that
Forum Members are like some kind of "herd" (of cattle or otherwise) that, like some kind of
Human Puppets on strings, publish personal information on the whim of any stranger who asks about personal issues or personal struggles in life.
İf I was 16 years old, maybe I would like change some my characters.But now I do not know wtat to change:))))
In the past, I always tried to change myself because I was not satisfied with myself in all respects.
Since I have struggled to change such a character of myself, I do not want to change anything else but accept everything.
