In Quraan you find this :
"And the heaven We constructed with strength, and indeed, We are [its] expander. And the earth We have spread out, and excellent is the preparer. And of all things We created two mates; perhaps you will remember. So flee to Allah . Indeed, I am to you from Him a clear warner. And do not make [as equal] with Allah another deity. Indeed, I am to you from Him a clear warner. Similarly, there came not to those before them any messenger except that they said, "A magician or a madman." Did they suggest it to them? Rather, they [themselves] are a transgressing people So leave them, [O Muhammad], for you are not to be blamed. And remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers. And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me. I do not want from them any provision, nor do I want them to feed Me. Indeed, it is Allah who is the [continual] Provider, the firm possessor of strength." Quraan 51/47-58
So, you can understand as to free your self from the slavary from any man and anything and to be a good and nice person with people around you especially your family.
Have a nice day!
With them the seed of Wisdom did I sow,
And with mine own hand wrought to make it grow;
And this was all the Harvest that I reap'd--
"I came like Water, and like Wind I go."
Into this Universe, and Why not knowing
Nor Whence, like Water willy-nilly flowing;
And out of it, as Wind along the Waste,
I know not Whither, willy-nilly blowing.
--Edward FitzGerald, "The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam"
God created us to fulfil his will here
It is an excellent research project.
To answer unanswerable questions.