Because unconsciously we want to understand or justify what has happened, as if understanding it would easy the pain a little bit. Perhaps it does, but the healing is rather a matter of time....
January 25, 2012
Correction: Why do we ask, when someone hurts us, why me?
It is human nature to question and protect oneself from pain. Once people look at a situation more closely they find that there are many answers.
January 26, 2012
We want to ask such questions to feel better... Other people's comment makes us think in a different way .