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dp maritha
love doesnt hurt but expectation does.. what do you think?
Feb 12, 2012 4:02 PM
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you are totally right,love can never hurt,bcz as its name love only know love..its feeling of goodness,and which cant be hurt,love is unconditional,love is not less not more..love is not big not small..love is love...its our expectations..our desires..our wants which hurts us..
February 12, 2012
I think that you are partly right when it comes to unrequited love, but I think that it is hard to love without fantasizing, and fantasizing generates expectation in many cases. Also, love can be painful without expectation: for example, I had to be apart from my love for a year just after we got married, and it was very painful, but not because of any expectation. I think love can be painful for so many reasons, just as it can be wonderful for so many! How about when you love someone deeply but they are making mistakes with their life and going down a self-destructive path? That is possibly one of the most painful things you can see.
February 12, 2012
dp maritha
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