am I rude ? Hi, everyone , this is Elaine, a freshman majoring in French and international trade.I met this English guy from our local English conor and he asked my number so I gave it to him ,I never though he'd turn out to be such a prick (excuse my language,but I can't help it ) Did I do anything wrong ? I need ur opinion,plz. thx I just don't understand why he said things like that ? Can anyone help me ? here's how the message goes.{E is me ,J is him) J:I'm in Chengdu now. E:Have a good time in Chengdu then, there r loads of things worth seeing in Chengdu. J:thx ,it's a very nice place, no doubt. E:U can say that again,I like its laid-back atmosphere unlikeother rushie rushie big cities og China.B sure not to miss the local snacks. J:I don't like the local snacks , the insides of a cow ,cow entrails hot pot ,but the parks ,ppl r great. E: I'm sure there r other edible snacks ,enjoy the rest of ur stay in Chengdu. J:hehe ,the potato spring rolls r very good.I think u r seriously a Chines Da Shan for English ,Study english literature masters ,otherwise u might forsake a brilliant talent. E: thx for ur compliment ,but I'm merely scratching the surface of english , still have a long way to go (I'm not being modest),and just because I don't specialse in English , doesn't mean I will end up doing sth totally irrelevant to it. J:No ,but lots of ppl work in English related fields.Still , if u want to keep scratching the surface. E:I'm afraid u r mistaken , I'm not saying I wanna keep scratching the surface of English , my point is u don't necessarily have to major in a certain subject to become good at it. Besides ,there r lots of selective english literature courses one can take. J:that's why I said masters , its one year only , I already know u r not majoring in English , but French. J: In england or America etc it's only one year ,thats my point,to be a master means one year , not a course. a course is scratching the surface, no ?Anyway ,ur choice, good luck. E:Gotta finish Bachelor degree first, might give it some serious thought ,but shouldn't there be more to life than pursing a degree? J:I really find messaging with annoying.Did u not learn any manners?I start off with a compliment , a big one ,then some friendly advice, A master is one year only but I don't care about u or ur degree. Just go away , don;t message me. J: I really don't care what u do ,don;t wanna waste my time messaging with ppl like u . J: just fuck off in other words. E: what do u expect me to say then ? Is speaking my mind a sin now?I can't for the life of me see which part of my reply is rude.It's a shame that I should knew u in the first place. J:u r too stupid to see when u have no manners E:So this all end up being a personal attack in the end? that's what u wanna do? I cant iamgine an english teacher saying "F" word to a girl just because she differs with him. J:iTS a good word.it's me who regrets knowing u ,u r just a sad product of a sad system. J: No manners ,just good at english. And u don't know me at all. E:it's u who r being judgy? why don't u take a look at ur self before accusing me? J: u just have no manners , its in ur way of speaking,U learnt english very well ,but the subtle stuff u dont get.