I have not heard Mr. and Mrs. Christmas used, but do hear Father Christmas sometimes. Father Christmas and Santa Claus generally refer to the same person these days, at least in the United States. As far as their origins, I have read that Father Christmas inspired the development of Santa Claus in the US, so they did not originally refer to the same Character. In the US, Santa is married in numerous stories, so most people here do know of a Mrs. Claus.