I just wanna figure the problem out in the answer given by sky6363. "qíng nǐ hǎo hāo duì tā" when two word have the same pronunciation 3th, we'd like to change the pronounciation of the first word to 2ed tones-"qǐng to qíng",but, if these words conbine to a single word, we usually pronounce the second word with 1st tones-"hǎo to hāo"-with lighter accent.