1. You would be either slow on the uptake, or quick on the uptake.
2. "Trigger off" is the only collocation that sounds natural. If you see a different preposition after trigger, it's probably part of the next clause.
3. You confide in a person (think of the Kylie song, "Confide in me"), and you confide something (a secret) to someone.
4. No, "an underway construction" doesn't make sense. "Underway" means "in progress".
Good questions!