It's a hassle when people make noise at the cinema.
People who make noise at the cinema rattle my cage.
People who beep their horns in the car really make me all hot and bothered.
It's annoying when somebody is late for an appointment.
I can't stand people who come late for a meeting/date.
It's what I got just off the cuff, I suppouse there are more people who can understand the different grades of anger better than me, but even though I hope you find it helpful.