The best relation you must have before thinking in others, is the one that you have with yourself .. if you are not honest with you, you cant be honest with others .. if you cant accept your truth, you cant say it to others .. if you dont love yourself, you cant love others ..
The best relation l do have, is the one with me. L accept who, and how l am, accept the things that other people tells me, so l try to be better, l do and give to other people what l want to get from them.