Can you explain the meaning of "attitude" in this paragraph? I'm collaborator of a forum for men. This week admin gave me a book and i must translate it to chinese. The book has a paragraph: "Since appearances matter so greatly with regard to your attitudes (that is, it is more important to appear certain than it is to actually be certain), it is actually not necessary to have positive expectations, as long as you at least always act like you do. Your attitude will catch up quickly[...] What is best for a male to wear all has to do with his attitude. Since a lot of attention is not essential for a male to be attractive to women, there is no point for him to wear bright colors for the sake of being more visible [...]At the end of the day, his attitude is far more significant and is the one thing a male should focus on, while his style should be at the bottom of his list of areas for improvement." all the word "attitude" in the paragraphs have the same meaning, right? What do they mean? And what does "appearances .... your attitudes" mean? Thank!