To abide by and to abide have different meanings. To abide by means to 'adhere to' (遵守). The other meaning is most often used in the phrase 'can't abide' with means to not be able to stand something.
I can't abide bad behaviour
abide | BrE əˈbʌɪd, AmE əˈbaɪd |
▸ I can't abide that/doing that
▸ to abide by;
服从 fúcóng ‹decree, judgement›
遵守 zūnshǒu ‹rule, promise, agreement›