I know you can use "really" with "want/wish",as in "I really want/wish...". But in a few examples, expecially when you have a relative clause, "really" doesn't fit. In this case, should I use "so" or "so much"?
Example 1: "Is that the gift you SO want to give her?" or "Is that the gift you want SO MUCH to give her"?
Example 2: "This is the day I was SO looking forward to" or "This is the day that I was looking SO MUCH forward to" or "This is the day I was looking forward SO MUCH to"