mmmm to be hounst i dont have agood answer but i can give u advice first if u love some one ( ur ex girlfrend or other ) and she dosnt love u ,, i think its not good realstion ship , im married now to be hounst i wasnt love hem befor i married hem but he love me i now that ,, i like that but now i love hem not becouse i have to noo becouse when someone give u all the time love ,, u should love hem i cant explan that u have to life it ,,, u have to see if she love u or not if not its not good realation ship