You stand up and be a man! Another point, if you hastily judge other people, you will always find them unwilling to help you out when you need them.

then trust in God like you said, and leave your worries to him

trust in yourself and you will get it through ...if we lose in big trouble,actually we have to solve it by ourselves...at the same time, we need friends or relatives who support to us..maybe they can not do anything ,but listening to us or hugging us are enough...life is yourown..and you can live better by yourself....come on...加油！

I think every trouble is the beginning of another chance ,and u can achieve success if u grasp the chance. One may not imagine he/she has numerous energy when faces difficultes.

of course its depends on how much is trouble big. if i cant sove that , family helps whatever you did :))