The student said she was going to attend her friend's wedding during this Pentecost holiday. The husband wants to be married, but she doesn't. She already spent money to buy the house and wants to save money for the baby. But he said they can't have children without being married. He is busy with work and he spends 3 hours a day commuting. She said she didn't understand, if she's unhappy, why she chose this guy; If they are unhappy now,I wonder why people think having children will make them happy. I said not having children is worse. Many workers are unhappy with their jobs, they still do the work. Many people are not happy with their life,but they're still alive. She said, she just feels pity for her friend, because she's "beautiful and nice". They were not close in university, but when she started work in Hong Kong, her friend shared her room with her.