A. Uğur
Failing in having an eye contact! Why do you think people doesn't pay attention to have eye contact while talking to someone?
24 de jan de 2019 22:58
Comentários · 11
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In Japan it's considered rude to keep eye contact: https://www.tofugu.com/japan/japanese-body-language/.

Some people feel uncomfortable when looking into other's people eyes, for instance people on the autism spectrum or with social anxiety.

If it's bothering you, that a certain person doesn't look you in your eyes, observe that person. Does it happen only with you or does the person avoid eye contact with other people too? I'd say, if the person avoids eye contact in general, then it's either a personal trait or habit or a cultural thing. If it's a woman, it could be that she's avoiding eye contact in order to not give you the impression that she's flirting.

25 de janeiro de 2019
5
It can have also something to do with the local culture, personally, i find it inappropriate to have a long eye contact with a woman... i take it as a form of disrespect toward her. It might not be the case somewhere else.
25 de janeiro de 2019
5
He/she just can be shy or afraid of having an eye contact .
As for me,it's hard to have an eye contact with a person during a talk and it doesn't mean that i don't respect this person or smth like that.It's just really uncomfortable for me(
24 de janeiro de 2019
3
Because nowadays the people don't live the moment. I think the most beautiful things are make eye contact, stay close to someone with you are talking to, smile, enjoy the little things that life let enjoy us. But in the actuallity the people have a lot of anxiety in their lifes, are so worried about their phones, their social medias and don't pay attention to the little things. So let the days pass and live a life thinking in other things all the time.
24 de janeiro de 2019
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It can be a matter of someone's personality!

I am an introvert and I rarely look people in the eye whilst talking to them, I mean important topics not just the usual pleasantries and small talk you might exchange at the beginning of a conversation. I just need to look away to collect and articulate my thoughts about the topic. But I always look them in the eye when I'm listening - provided they let me... :) I get along best with other introverts and usually they have to look away themselves when they are speaking... ;)

25 de janeiro de 2019
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