I dont want to work in a kind of job that will make me very busy to extent that I cannot see my friends and family. I cannot go out to eat and shop. Even if they will give me a very big salary I will decline that kind of job. What is the use of having a big salary if you don't have time to spend it merrily?

i think first you should think it by yourself and ask yourself what do you really want, does it worth etc.  when you made your decision you should do it without hesitate any more and just go.  

Ultimately, family is more important and if you can get the work/life balance the that is excellent. I think a lot of people have difficulty doing this though.

The ideal would be to find something you love doing and then turn that into a job. FOr example, I love teaching and want to travel the world - that is why I am going to do my CELTA course next month :)

I hope you manage to achieve equilibrium in your own life :)

I am miserable when I am working too much. I feel like life is passing by me. I enjoy traveling and doing things that require money, but I also love to have the time to study language, to take walks and to enjoy many free activites.

I would much rather be at home then work, but I don't mind work too much. I do what I love to do, and that is cook. I think if you choose a career that is something you love it makes work more bearable. I am very excited for my career.