just be your self, , Are you trying to "fit in" with a certain person or group? Are you worried about the way you dress, the things you have to say, or your background? What is causing you to feel so inadequate, Moonchild? Don't you know how special you are? Don't you know that you are so unique you needn't try to fit in with anyone who is not a kindred spirit? Don't allow anyone to intimidate you. Don't allow anyone to make you feel "less than." If you're worried and anxious about fitting in, then you are too good for whoever is making you feel that way. so just be your self me