What is the difference between 初めてand 始めて?
I have been told that one of this is 自動詞 and that the other one is 他動詞 Any assistance in helping me understand this is appreciated.

Question

What is the difference between 初めてand 始めて? 
I have been told that one of this is 自動詞 and that the other one is 他動詞 Any assistance in helping me understand this is appreciated.

Answer

初めて is used for a 'first (for the first time)' whilst 始める is used for 'starting/beginning'

ex:
1) 初めてのデート -> first date
2) 始めてよろしいでしょうか。-> OK. Can I start?

The difference can easily be distinguished when you learn the grammar. (ex: ～し始める; ～の初め）