hi, i can't agree with Peachey more .Quite right !If you really love me ,then love everything about me,including my animals,instruments ,...everything .hahaha,but i have to say ,if i love some girl ,i won't love everything about her .i just think everybody need a sense of self .In another word,we need to be caring and ignorant to people around us, including your lovers. How do u think,Hebe ?