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sort of
like
kind of
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actually no
as a matter of of fact…….
to be honest…...
to be frank with you……….
in fact …. the fact of the matter is…..

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how shall i put it?
what's the word I’m looking for ?
how can i explain this?
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what's the best way to put this ?
what I’m trying to say is ……...
now it mi let me put it this way …...