Relationship
What do you think about necessity for controlling your partner?
I suppose, that our previous experiences are playing a big role in converting us into control freaks:)
For example, youx ex always lied to you about where and with whom he/she was, and now you want to control when your sweetheart comes home, when he/she should call you or when to go to bed.
You become suspicion and nervous, and more you are trying to control, more he/she resists. I'm totally for healthy and respectful boundaries, but relationship is a choice. And if you chose to be in one, you should respect your partners wishes, rights and private space.
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What do you think about necessity of controlling your partner?I suppose that our previous experiences play a big role in converting us into control freaks:)
For example, youx ex always lied to you about where he was and who he was with. (and with whom he/she was,) So now you want to control when your new sweetheart comes home, when he calls you or when to go to bed.
You become suspicion and nervous, and the more you try to control, more he resists. I'm totally for healthy and respectful boundaries, but a relationship is a choice. And if you choose to be in one, you should respect your partner's wishes, rights and private space.
*** she/he this is a current live issue in English grammar - how to manage the gender of an unknown third person. Before the 1970s, you could use the male pronoun and take it as including the female possibility, but feminist thinking has made that more uncomfortable. Using "he or she" is correct, but cumbersone. He/she is possible but not elegant. S/he is sometimes used but is also ugly. A few people advocate using third person plural "they" or "them", but many others find this ugly and wrong. My advice would be to try to recast sentences to avoid this issue where you can!
https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/usage/he-or-she-versus-they
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What do you think about the necessity for controlling to control your partner?I suppose that our previous experiences are playing play a big role in converting us into control freaks:)
For example, your ex may always lie to you about where and with whom he/she was and whom he/she was with. Because of this, you want to control when your sweetheart comes home, and when he/she should call you or when to go to bed.
You become suspicious and nervous, and the more you are trying try to control them, the more he/she resists. I'm totally for healthy and respectful boundaries, but relationship is a choice. And If you choose to be in one a relationship, you should respect your partner's wishes, rights and private space.
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