i think u mean to ask : if you have a crush on a woman i think this is a question for men, right? but , i think if this man is courageous, he will go and talk to her

I think she means having love feeling with someone .

ask if she's interested in girls, too

I ask her out for a drink.

I apologize and try to be better at first time to fix the situation. As more your mistake, as more you should strive to show yourself from the better side. As a rule, after that everything returns to its normal condition. :) Life continues.