'How long have you had it?' vs 'How long have you been having it?' I like you car. How long (you/have) it? In this sentence, the answer is 'have you had'. But I wonder what if I use 'have you been having'? I've learned 'have' cannot be use in a progressive like 'having'. Is that the reason? or is there any reason cannot be answer? :(

Should be offered VS Have been offered What is different between these two sentence? I think he should be offered the job. I think he should have been offered the job. I studied 'have been pp' uses when object is used as a subject. Like, my bike has been stolne. So, I'm confused :( Please let me know what it is?

Special day in Korea. Here in Korea, we have many anniversary day almost every month. 14 of Jan is Diary day : The moment of the New Year begins, couple can exchage thier diary eath other. 14 of Feb is Valentine day : Girls give chocolate to boys they like. 14 of Mar is White day : Boys give candy to girls they like. 14 of Apr is Black day : People who didn't receive anything on Valentine and White day eat together jajangmyeon. 14 of May is Rose day : People give a rose to lover. 14 of June is Kiss day : Kiss day <3 14 of July is Silver day : People exchange ring with lover. 14 of Aug is Music day : To sing a song(serenade) for lover. 14 of Sep is Photo day : Take a photo with lover. 14 of Oct is Wine day : While talking drink a glass of wine. 11 of Nov is Pepero day : Present Pepero to thier friends, family and lover. 11 of Nov is Movie day : Build up good memories while watching movie. And so on.... It was Pepero day. The older I grow, the more I don't manage these events. And I think maybe it prove I'm getting age:D

So confused.. I have a plan going to Australia for working holiday after 1 or 2years. So I save the money for that. People say you don't need to much money for that just go when you're young. But I don't think so. Because I'm 25 years old and not a young anymore. So I need to specific plan. Why I have to go to there, what I can get from there.. The biggest reason is English but I know, it's very short time to learn English. But it's not all. I've wanted living in western country since I was little. I just want to homestay with real Aussie family, doing something in English, to meet new people in new environment... In order to do so, I need to give up my job, money, time, chance for promotion and so on. My parents never understand me even my order sister. Always they say keep it real. But I don't know why it has to be just a dream. They worry about my feature. After going to working holiday I have to get a new job in Korea and I'll be 29~30 years old in korean age.So they want I can live ordinary life like a common people my age. I don't know why it has to be a just dream. But he more they oppose it, the more I lose my confidence.

Can a good friend between man and woman ? I always wondered why people say it's impossible to be a friend between man and woman. Because I don't think so. I have one friend who is man and we've been friend for years since I went to elementary school. Sometimes, he asks me advice about his romance. And I used to ask him similar thing. It was really good because I could avoid arguing with boyfriend. And my friend was able to more understand his girlfriend. Most of my friends say " it's impossible! You're just weird." But if it's possible, sometimes men is easier than women as a friend. So I wonder it's only for Asian or most of people : D

About religion Yesterday someone asked me about my religion . When I read the message I was on my home from church so I answered I'm a christian. So he said "me too! I'm so glad to hear that." And then he expained some difference between Catholics and Christians. He said "Catholic they believe in Saints and I don't and in Bible there talking only Jesus deserve every worship as God." And also, I think both of them puts stress on bible. But I heard in Chatolic, they regard good behavior is the most important thing even though they disobey bible. Actaully, here in Korea, they have a word for : There is no answer about religion. So I don't care about religion!

Popular thing in Korea these day These days I can see many foreigners on the TV shows. And these things are pretty popular these day even I saw many poeple who were watching it on the subway at the same time. Among them I'd like to say one program 'Unsual meeting(비정상회담)' Regular panels were made up of 11 members who came from each other's countries. They have a discussion about one topic like a 'live together before getting married'. 'unemployment crisis of each countries' and so on. I can learn many things by watching this show. The most interesting part is to look at something from various views. Because the panesl have not only different country but also job and caracter. Hope, someday it will be aired all over the world : )