Passive Aggressive Behavior I haven’t heard about this word until this morning in China time. The thing is: I have been being the member of a English Wechat Group for half a year. In that group we read English quotes, we talk about English expression and the culture of native English spoken countries. One day someone shared the Spanish song<Despacito>and someone liked it. Today, someone shared a Chinese song this early morning. After that ,the comments came as”In this group we only talk about English so it’s not suitable for sharing a Chinese song”, “And the music is not that beautiful.” Those comments caused she upset who shared the Chinese song. Then she said”We are in the different region with different culture, I’m sorry you don’t like it and I’m gonna remove myself out of this group”. She did. I was sorry that the thing shouldn’t have been evolved like this way. But the manager of this group taught me this behavior called “Passive Aggressive Behavior”. It was immature, indirect and insecure. She did that kind of thing under she knows the rule of this group then removed herself from the group .Passive aggressive behavior wanted to control people’s thought, not being honest to express in a directly way. He also taught me that It’s no necessary to feel bad about his behavior. Therefore, dear readers , what’s your opinion of Passive Aggressive Behavior?Please kindly let me know. Thank you. Have a good day.

Travel I like travelling. I like to immerse myself in the different country and culture as like I lived in another person's life. Now travelling in a foreingn country is becaming more easier, such as for getting visa and benefit by the developing of internet, you can not only book airplane tickect but also book the tickket of view point. The only thing you need to do for your jouney is dream what experience you want to get. Would you like to get the experience to wear the Kimono in Japan? Or would you like to experience Chou Dou Fu in Taiwan? Or even would you like to taste Durian in Singapore? I like to travel with my family or just alone. I think there are 3 aspects of benefits in travelling alone. 1. You don't need to care about others' feeling, you just do the things you like to. 2. You don't need to meet others' timetable and scheddule.You arrange yourself's. 3. Most of them ,the economic aspect is the important one, It's cheaper than whole family do~~Hahaha~ But I also like to travel with family as well. Because we can share the most happy time together.

你学习得忙吗？ 如果此处“忙”做形容词理解，则语法上无误（动词+得+形容词），但我们偏向于说“你学习忙吗？”为什么呢？ ---------一个外国友人问

First lesson on Italki This morinig I had my first lesson with teacher Steve on Italki. At first Steve didn't know how deep I mastered English, so he kindly started lesson in a elementary level. Then after 10mins he has found that he can explain me the syllables of one word in an interesting method. I really appreciate it! And at the end of lesson, he gave me some advice to use English daily. That's also his experience when he was studying Japanese. It was very interesting. Through this lesson I can understand which aspect I need to improve, and how to memorize the vocabulary in use method. That's my today's wonderful experience although there always are things make me distracted (such as things around kids), but this experience was my source of joy. (Thank you for reading and please kindly correct! I appreciate it~~)

Some thoughts I've been hard working this week due to the Japanese oral interpretation. On the last weekend, I applied for the tutor for Italki, because I really like to teach others my mother tongue, and I don't think it will be an obstruction to make friends here who can really help me with my English . So I would like to say, in my opinion, earn money from Italki is not my goal, the promotion of mutual learning is my setted point. Of course , I have a plan to become a professional teacher who teach Chinese as second foreign language, so if I can get some teaching experiences here then it will be helpful with my career. I'd like to share this quote with you there:" Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. - Bernard M. Baruch". Thank you for reading and please kindly correct me, appreciate.

Why did they delete Wechat moments?

In China ,we are using Wechat as a communicate tool or someone uses it as a business tool.<o:p></o:p>

 It is really bringing some influences into our life no matter they are bad or good.<o:p></o:p>

So there are some friends have shared their currently situation , believe me , what I am saying is a normal situation.<o:p></o:p>

For example , they might shared today’s lunch in a restaurant with taking a food picture,<o:p></o:p>

or shared a idol’s drama photo who is popular and famous in current drama.<o:p></o:p>

Then I have found that they shared the first day, and deleted it in the second day, I am curious with it.<o:p></o:p>

Why did they need to delete? Those were parts of reality life, and only friends can be added in your wechat,<o:p></o:p>

so what’s the matter to let them read these as a real you?<o:p></o:p>

他人は自分の鏡 今日は友達と掲題の趣旨を話し合いました。 私の考えには、この観点が納得できます。他人と交際している時に、自分はどういう人間か、相手からもラベルを張られます。 その結論に従って、相手がどの態度やどの話し方や付き合い方を選択して、 自分普段見せられている側面と同調な側面を出して、自分と交際します。 例えば、いつも礼儀正しい友達の前で、自分も礼儀正しく交際し合っているでしょう。 でも、気短な友達の前で、気短な同調になりやすいです。解決方法はいつも深呼吸が何度も必要で、ちゃんといろいろと調整します。 自分はいつも上司の前で、尊敬な態度をもっていれば、上司からも自分のプライベートタイムを大事に扱われています。 ちゃんとベストと真実な自分をしましょう。

My daughter(Please kindly correct! Appreciate!) My daughter has a English name of Mia, and it was from her favourite cartoon.She is eleven-year-old and a fourth grade student at a elementary school. She draws animation pictures and plays Guzheng very well . I am so proud of her! she study hard and has stong responsibility of her studying status. For example, when she started drawing and playing Guzheng, she was so concentrate her attention on it, never be aware of others, sometimes I am really envious. When I started studying English, there always be a sound like: "Mom! Where is my forfex?" "Mom! Can you play games with me?" Then made me distracted. I should learn the concentration from her! Now she is growing faster and faster , almost 152cm now. My friend said, he felt sad about Mia growing so fast. I don't know why? Shouldn't my husband needs to feel sad for it? because our daughter grows fast and will become a bride some day, her father and I will be so sad.

先週の週末 先週の週末では英語の勉強をしなかったんです。その理由は常州の「南山竹の海」へ家族旅行に行きました。 　　一年二回に台湾協会の先輩達と一緒に行く旅行だから、身体だけではなく、心もちゃんと浸したいと思いまして、ずいぶん楽しかったです。 　　まず、風景的に、土曜日は結構いい天気でしたので、湖と竹の山の景色はとっても美しかったです。竹の山々は連綿と続いて、まるで大地が大きいな緑のベルベット毛布に覆われているみたいです。列が長く並んでいたが、外見が列車なのに、実物がバスという電動車も乗って、子供達は大喜びでした。聞いてみると、彼らに対して、一番楽しかったのはケーブルカーに乗ったことです。そのケーブルカーにはガラスの窓がないので、直に竹の山の新鮮な空気を一杯吸い込めるし、より一層自然と一体化となったみたいからです。 　　また、心の収獲といいますと、他人のことを配慮することや、チームとしていつも同時に行動すること等、先輩達からいろいろ勉強しました。とても感謝しております。 　　以上、ご修正のほど、宜しくお願い致します。