which one will you choose between pride and affection?

I read an article written by a friend online just now,which makes me thinks a lot.Sometimes we're confronted with the situation  that we treasure someone  but the one shows a little indiference.Though maybe that happens just because he or she has such a disposition,it really makes you feel your pride hurt.IN this situation,which one will you choose between pride and affection?i want to know what will you do if that happens,not what you think you should do.

the first snowfall in 2014 This morning when I was still lying in the bed，my little sister shouted “Look out of the window！It‘s snowing heavily!” I sat and looked out of the window——wow！The ground was all white,and the snowflakes were still dancing in the air.Beautiful！ This is the first snowfall in this winter.This winter is not cold in general.Even in the day of Spring Festival there was no snowfall,which made the festival lack some feelings.My parents said in their childhood the snowfalls were so heavy that doors and windows were blocked.I can't imagine that because I haven‘t seen such heavy snowfall.Maybe it’s one of the results of global warming.

How to reject others properly?

We all have moments that when others invite us to do something but in fact we don't want to go,just because of tiredness or unwillness.So what would u do to reject others friendly requests?

Why Chinese show more passion to comment on foreigners essay?

I find that foreighners' essay in Chinsese are more likely to be commented patiently.What's the reason?(though I also feel interesting to do that :D)Does this show Chinese users occupy a large proportion in this website,or other things?

Pressure I feel as 21. I have been already grade three of university,so it‘s time to consider of my way after college. There are 3 most usual ways to be chosen——attending graduate school,going abroad and joining in work.The first one is the most difficult.The second one is the most expensive.The third one may be the most boring.For me,I think I can only spare no efforts studying to attend graduate school,though it's more attracted to go abroad. My major is finance,I can't decide I like or dislike it ,but I know it's not my favorite.The career prospect has been strict nearly a year or two,but it's nearly impossible stop and turn to other career.Maybe it's path dependence. We Chinese people give me more conservative impression than Occident people,less willing to shoulder risks,though not happy.I often hear about story about foreigners especially Occidentals learning even more than 4 kinds of foreign languages,but rarely know we Chinese who did that.We are very very busy,even not knowing why.We just keep ourselves busy on routines,and lack courage to make a little change.

Do people from Occident really show indifferent to virtual friends? I've read many materials about the attitude Occident people show about virtual friends.According to them,they always pay no faith to virtual friends,and that mostly their purpose is sex = =. I think these reports exaggerate the truth,but they're not unreasonable at all.I've spent all afternoon trying to chatting with foreigners in an online chatting room,only to get a nearly disappointed results.More than90% people I met asked for sex and said disgusting words in the first sentence.I only met a nice woman this afternoon,but in the end she was not willing to leave even an email address to me,fearing that I might become a threat to her family in the future. Tonight I read an article written by a foreigner living in China.He said he extremely disliked Chinese pretending to be friends with them but in fact only thinking about improving their oral English.I think it's easy to understand his thought.Maybe people just show hostility in the totally strange situation without noticing it.

请问这句话有语法错误吗？不需要翻译，如果改正的话，直接改成日语就好。 でも、ずるいですね！こうなら、毎回シャンハイ 地下鉄駅の名を見て、君のことを思い出します。

wanted 2 The third dream was a production of half-heated effort ,which I had no courage to complete and gave up easily.It vanished.The second dream was proved to be just hobby,not dream.They are things I wanted to do but when I truly have opportunities to realize it,I showed the white feather.It diminished.But how about the first dream? Does it also just a splendid and visional hallucination fabricated by a young girl to let herself intoxicated in? I say,"No". Though I majored in science in the past which truly trapped me from majoring in literature in college and I have few chances to go very far in my writing way,I still treasure that dream in the bottom of my heart and will never isolate myself from it .You may think it stubborn,but I valued it more than any other things called "hobby". Yes,writing,is things I want to rather than I wanted to,in other words,things I will never forget and be aspired to.I lead a serious attitude to it and won't play it. A heavy rain pouring outside, I truly feel something having sprinkled my life with stardusts transforming into something perplexing,especially when you treat it serious.Life won't always go down the way you want,and things you wanted to do have a potential to cast a shadow in your road and even mislead you.I'm painful about the huge fall between the reality and the dream.I try to digest it silently,feeling a deep solitude,which can't break down easily,or,which won't break down easily because I won't easily permit it to break down.The moment I stared at the falling rain,I saw a little girl looking at the rain and counting her thousands of dreams,not well aware of the risks and pain it could bring to her in her later life. But who could say it isn't fragrant? Thanks to things I wanted to do,I 'm well aware of things I still want to do,not contradict with things I'm doing.There is surely something you want to stick to deriving from things you wanted to and you just want to do it for no purpose.It may make you ambivalent.One night I wrote some words.Heart，pounding；tomorrow，casts nothing;wait,or not to wait;a thousand stars,twinkle their innocent eyes,without showing me a flicker of hope.It described a negative attitude towards future,but in fact it just showed a temporary emotion.In my heart,I may disappointed,but I won't be desperate,in that things I wanted to do have built me and things I want to do always make my satisfied and merry . 原文：http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_61322e4a01012m1g.html

wanted 1（that's a game between my friend and me,and "wanted"is tirtle he gave me) When the original topic and its multiple meanings came to me,I truely raised a familiar feeling.Though its four meanings have been informed to me, I still want to talk about its first meaning occuring to me---a desire to do something which have existed. I actually have had a thousand dreams through my childhood to my adolescence.No need to talk about the ordinary dreams kids would all possess like becoming scientists or artists,I'm going to say something about my distinctive dreams,which are all involved in my desires to do something having existed or still staying with me.First and uppermost,I have been dying to become a writer who could freely speak her mind,which is a romantic dream of many young girls.The second thing of my dreams is to do something for animation,which I've been hooked on from my high school.I painted all the night despite of the coming college entrance examination,though I just copied some of my beloved characters and I surely couldn't paint them well.I painted,or rather,I just painted my ideal world thinking about the future I wanted to have.The third thing I wanted to do,which was quite innocent,was to be a physicist and majored in astronomy,the reason of it be linked to the mysterious and splendid world physics had shown me. These were things I wanted to do.Yeah,"wanted",not "want".