Hello guys,
As I was scrolling through the list of French Italki teacher to check how rated I was compared to other teachers, I noticed something appealing: a significant part of teachers/tutors claim speaking and teaching the REAL French, from France. I'm a French native speaker from Belgium, therefore I wonder: Is my mother tongue FAKE? If some people claim speaking a language that is real, does it mean that other variants of that language are copies?
I don't want to target anyone nor a community, I have seen that not only with French. Even my German teacher at the university surprised me once, pointing on the map in the classroom where the purest German was spoken. It was such a nonsense for me that I don't even remember where it was exactly. I'm sorry Swiss, Austrians, Bavarians, Belgians (German is spoken in Belgium) but you don't speak German. Even though you think that's your mother tongue and even though you've been speaking it for your whole life, I have a message for you: your language is fake.
Can you feel the violence here? A specific accent, a specific vocabulary, a specific way to express yourself, we all have it and that is what makes us. A language is not only a way to communicate, it is part of us.. Because some many things keep living in the way we speak, our history, our character, our emotions. When you have integrated that, you can feel all the nonsense and the violence in phrases like : "I speak the REAL language with the REAL accent". Because it means that some accents and languages are fake. And as these things are an important part of who we are, it also means that some people are also fake. I've been witnessing it for a long time and now it starts getting on my nerves, so I afford to tell it: I am real. I am pure. And so is my language. Because I'm carrying a history, a heritage, lives, thoughts and emotions. As anyone else on this planet. French is not only spoken in Paris. Reality is everywhere.
This is what I wanted to discuss with you today :)

