Personally I'm sure that every man is the architect of his own fate. 

<em>It's definitely that we can change it! As for me, I'm sure that everything depends on people, they create their lives day by day by themselves) You are the only one who is able to do it, none of us will help you. IMHO, the word 'fate' is for the ones who just gave up trying
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Good luck :)  </em>

Of course, you are the owner of your fate. You decide and act and all your decisions and actions will change your fate.

I'm sorry but I don't believe it :)

I always think that success always due to hard working, working hard or not due to your motivation :) Fate have nothing to do here :D

Well, just my two cents.

Life is creating yourself.