Quenstions It is said that human incline to be remembered, to prevent from oblivion. So Chinese people creat a way to keep their family to be remembered, they make them admire the old ancient . So if chinese want to pray , they would say:"old ancient,please bless us ." Even some people obsessed with borning a son to keep the surname. Do I want to be remembered as well? No, I just want to be loved, for real. Anyway parents and children can't help loving each other. Is it why people keep marrying and have kids?