"When is it appropriate to go Dutch?" Is this Q about in a relationship? About the second Q: This is actually somewhat culturally related. Here in China, many guys would pay for girls (whether in a romantic relationship or just friends) even they actually don't really want to, since paying for girls shows that you're not a stingy guy. It's a tradition. Some girls would complain if their boyfriends would just go Dutch, others don't. So, it depends. In the U.S., asI learned, if a guy asks a girl out, he should pay. Who asks the part out, who pays. In North Europe, they usually go Dutch (due to the feminism). I personally prefer going Dutch. I have no problem with it, I would even pay for him.

在中国，一般情况下，在一起聚餐都会有人作东，不会AA制，因为聚餐都是有原因的，通常我们会说“我的地盘，我做主”；另外，如果聚餐不是为了某一个人，也不是专门由某一个人发起，或者事先商量好，对于花费较大的聚会，才会go dutch. 如果跟自己喜欢的女孩一起吃饭，那自然是我请客的。

我喜欢荷兰，我看到的资料里说荷兰是一个有很多鲜花的地方，那里的花品种很多。我想那里会很漂亮、自然、浪漫的。